Recently i met up with an old good friend of mine. We had a long chat updating about each others lives and stuffs. Apparently, she's getting married soon and i'm getting engaged soon, too...I am happy for her, truly happy for her for i know for a fact that she has been waiting for this day since she's with her fiance.
Surprisingly, as we got into more details about her preparations and all, i realised something isn't quite right from her facial expressions...she lacked the excitement look on her face which got me curious...so i asked her if there's anything she would like to share with me...
" G, i am not sure if i want to get married with him anymore actually.."
I was shocked. She continued..
" Just recently i found out that our relationship was basically based on a LIE...all this time i believed that i was never a 3rd party in his previous relationship...he thought i would be glad that he dumped his ex because he wanted to be with me when i confronted him...maybe you would think the same way too...but i am not the least bit happy...why? because it just simply shows that he is CAPABLE of doing the same to me or to any other girls..."
I felt for her instantly. I used to be in a long term relationship as well where a 3rd party was involved (which is not me btw) and i have vowed never to be involved with another woman's man or be a victim again....therefore, i truly understand how she feels...
I tried to talk some sense into her but all seems futile. She started sobbing and i just don't know what to do to help her...
"You know G, actually all these years i have been wondering why does he still hold on to his ex's stuff and being so defensive whenever the topic of his ex comes to picture...and fyi G, he has no problem talking bout his others exes except the last one before me...i confronted him about it, he explained but somehow somethings just didn't add up but i was tired of pursuing for the truth and reluctantly accepted his explainations...i've been trying really hard to not think about it until recently when we decided to tie the knot...i decided to search for the truth myself and sad to say, i've actually dug up can full of worms and now i'm no longer sure about us..."
I was speechless. I didn't know what to say. I just looked at her and said: "You know you were supposed to just let go of the past and most important thing is the future...at least you know that he loves you enough to want to marry you, right?"
"G, i know...i believe that he loves me...but i also believe that he still thinks of his ex...the ex that he speaks highly of...not in front of me but in his break up letter to her..."
My eyes widened..."Break up letter u said? And how the hell did you get hold of it?"
"Like i said i was in a mission to find the truth and answers for all my doubts...and i had to DIG HARD by all means possible...including invasion of his privacy..."
"G, it's all made clear to me now and it all made sense now. All my doubts and insecurities were not just my active imagination. I know...i know...i shouldn't dwell with the past instead concentrate on the future...but...how can i expect bright future when i am constantly bugged by all this "questions" and "doubts"?...and now, after finding out the truth and realising that he LIED to me since day one...HOW can i possibly be ok?"
Basically to cut the whole story short...
This dear friend of mine is now in doubts whether to go through with the wedding or not...she loves hes fiance but she doesn't know if she can ever trust him again...also, she doesn't know if she will be able to sincerely forgive and forget...
It's sad to see her looking so lost....she used to be a very bubbly girl and she smiles and laugh alot...i kinda miss her old-self...i wish i can help but i believe nobody can really help her but herself...
It made me think:
how do we know that he/she is the one for us?
Hi peeps,
A lot of things had happened to me since the last post.
1. Was hopsitalised and had an emergency operation. Great way to usher in New Year!
2. Was in another major bust up with people that i care.
3. Deeply affected with what i saw and read...
4. Had an emotional breakdown.
5. Had to turn down NTV7 offer to appear in one of their shows.
6. Had a blast and a opportunity of a lifetime to work with Adibah Noor in her latest VC (although cikai-cikai punya part huhu...)
7. Last but least, I AM GETTING ENGAGED ON THE 23RD FEBRUARY 2008. Yay!
Sekian, terima kasih..uhu
It was a bloody wonderful opportunity that i HAD to pass...not because i don't want it but i just HAD to due to personal reasons (konon la..) I'm sad and dissappointed but i guess it's probably gonna be blessing in disguise.....uhu
Acceptance...i guess that's it.
I tried to accept it and move on but i can't...
I hate this dejavu feeling of uncertainty, wondering whether this is it or isn't, etc....gives me sleepless nights...
Most of the time i'm ok...but sometimes it just comes into my head without warning and starts to make damages.....FCUK!
Sometimes i just wish we never know each other.....
I have been facing some health complications lately....initially i was a bit concerned...which lead me to make an appointment with a specialist.
As the days nearing to the date of my appointment, i was on an emotional roller coaster...and kesian my VB for having to deal with my unwarranted behaviour hihi....I'm just glad that he was such a doll during those times of madness haha....although there were times i just felt like kicking his ass ... oopppsss....
From being concerned...i was getting more like, paranoid over something that i was not even sure of...
Then, the day finally arrived to meet the specialist....
I was practically terrified of just the mere thought of what maybe be happening to me....
To cut the story short....
I dragged VB along with me to the clinic which is located in Old Town....
After getting myself registered at the counter....i waited anxiously, with VB sitting beside me for my name to be called out to enter the doctor's room...
Five minutes passed...then ten minutes....Finally, "G*** K****C****"
I was greeted with a rather warm-motherly smile from Dr.Katherine...which thankfully made me feel more relaxed...
Then as soon as i sat down...the consultation began....
I started with explaining to her what was happening, history of illnesses and am sure you guys know the drill...
Anyways, she instructed to pass urine in a sample case for testing....i did...
Waited again....
Few minutes later was called in again...
Immediately after entering the room, i was asked to strip (in a way la hihi) and lie flat back on "the table"...Let's just say that i was damn glad that she was a "SHE" haha....
Soon after lying down, she started performing series of check-ups on me....i kinda felt violated but i told myself this is routine and nothing to be ashamed of....
Fortunately, she started small-talking with me...at least it helped to get my mind off the uneasiness of being poked, grabbed, and groped by a total stranger and under full light hahaha....
Then, the nurse came in brought the results of my urine test...
What the good doctor had to say to me next was....ermmm...for me....TOTALLY UNEXPECTED....totally contradicted with what i had in mind....
Strangely, i felt sooo relieved and also ECSTATICALLY happy but at the same time, it was kinda scary thinking of the repercussions that may ensued...uhu
Well, although her sentence started with the word MAYBE but at least it gave me a light of hope again...a hope that i thought has gone forever...(dramatic sungguh hehehe..)
Nevertheless, it was still a maybe...couldn't really confirm yet since i was still b******g. So, she asked me come back in another 2 weeks time until everything has cleared up. At the meantime, i was given loads of vitamins and folic acid tablets...the amount of tablets prescribed to me that day was nothing like i've ever been prescribed before in my whole life hahaha....macam mau kasi makan satu kampung.....
Anyways, all is good for now.....no expectations but someone's getting jittery hahaha....
Ladeedaaa~~~
Till then.........
Wahh!! HAs been ages since the last time i set foot in a pub....until 29/9/07 at TSB Bangsar....how was it like for me after so long? errmmm.....let's just say, i've "grown" to be an old and boring aunty hahaha....
The group was fun...the place was great...but its just me la...macam nda ngam tuning sudah sama sia all this club scenes...
Nonong was gorgeous...nampak tempias ninin lagi tuh ngeh ngeh ngeh..si Dora maintain hot mama hihihi..si esther (baru kenal)...she rocks...wewiitt...si Ollyn...sia tipah tertipu oleh dia...thought she was a Sabahan..check-check..anak jati KL...sporting abis...the guys...maintain cool and macho lor pa lagi haha...
Pictures? check out my friendster page jak la..malas mo uplod banyak-banyak...ladeedaaa~~
Finally the 2nd civil war has ended! phew....
The Vikings and Gondorians are now at peace again.....new scars created but with time and much love, those scars will heal.....
The Gondorians' decision to confront the Persians was not a great idea but it was obviously a good one. For, thanks to the confrontation with the Persians, the Gondorians felt more at ease. Although that, did not manage to completely quash all the doubts the Gondorians had towards the Vikings, but by confronting the so-called nemesis, the Persians, it surely helped the Gondorians to stand for something that they believe and voice out loud and clear what they really want from the Vikings.
The war this time around was pretty ugly. Ironically, something great actually resulted from this war. Something that someday will turn out to be beautiful.....
First of all, i've just turned 28 years old couple of months ago...and being a woman of 28 years old and unmarried (although not single hihi...meaning taken ody la.. ), it is no surprise that my mom ( and i believe any moms...especially those traditional type of moms la) keeps bugging me about the Big M issue....besides the usual how-much-weight-u-lost-recently question...arrgghhh......
Well, weight issue is so old...i'm basically use to it and it's so easy for me to just brush it aside haha....
As for the Big M thingy, that's kinda new and it's actually irritating...and a total mood killer...haih...imagine yourself missing your mom and you call her just to see how she's doing and catch up with stuff that has been happening lately back home..all excited...when suddenly, the question that you dread most coming out from her mouth....KABOOMMMMM!! right smack in your face!!....say oso no use leh...haha.....and by the end of the day, you end up spending like half an hour trying so freaking hard to justify you actions and decisions and reasoning yourself to her....but still it feels like you are talking to a brick wall (or whatever wall you guys want la...hihi) I do understand her concerns but i have MY OWN concerns as well...
I just wish that she could just accept the fact when i told her (in fact, have been telling her....MANY times) that we are just not ready yet....not in near future....and these kinda things cannot be rushed...You see, first of all...i have just started working...and heck, i'm still using a piece of junk to travel called CAR...and with my meager wage....how can she expect me to start a freaking family....mau kasi makan pasir ka sama anak-anak? adeeiii...haha...(yada-yada-yada...) YES! I know many of you will say, it's the man's job to provide all the basic necessities to the family....but i don't really believe in that...cos i believe that if the woman is also earning, means that she is also capable of being the care giver too...not only the man....thus, it's her responsibility to provide as well...
Don't get me wrong here...i'm not in any way crucifying my mom over the cyberspace..i love her to death....it's just that, sometimes (if not most of the times...) i just wish that she would one day realise that i am no longer the little Gorisuk@iLis she once had total control of....and that she just have to learn to accept the fact that i want to live my life the way i want to and not the way she wants to or what other people a.k.a orang kampung a.k.a relatives expect me to.....
You guys just don't have any idea how badly i want to say it to her directly....but, i just don't have the heart to hurt her feelings...i can only give her hints and hope that she would understand and back off with the Big M thingy....and just be glad that her lil-fat-big-gorisuk@ilis has a boyfriend who loves her ( ehem....) and not being a lonely-fat-grumpy-droopy-gorisuk hahaha....
Okay...let me be frank....most part of me is just dying to get hitched.....why? hrrmmm....i'm not really sure why but probably one of the reason is because i love him? haha....or also because i'm terrified of being "over-riped" hahaha....ladeedaaa....whatever the reasons are...it doesn't really matter.....
Having said that, there is also one teeny tiny part of me inside that is just not ready yet....and the reason for this one is CLEAR...but it's only for me to know and for you guys to wonder...haha....Hints? hrrrmmm..let's just say, unresolved issues haha.....
What i'm trying to say here is that, being pressured to get hitched by my mom just sucks big time....ladeedaa~~
Uhu......i miss Bali already..definitely will be going there again....ladeedaaa
Owh...to all of you who tried calling me and smsed me..sorry no reply etc....phone not in international roaming mode hehehehe......
Had fun...was there for 5 days 4 nights with Vincy and another friend, Ling....
It was a budget trip..nevertheless, the experience and fun-ness is definitely priceless....
There's just sooo much to tell and write but i believe it's best if i just serve you all with the pics...hihihihihi....
so, kalau nda keberatan click la sini: http://dohpimuk.multiply.com/photos
Yay...there will be friendly futsal tourney between our team (actually most of my team mates are THE STAR people...except me and few others, foreigners haha..) and some private company ;) on the 30th June. Mixed girls and boys la....bet it'll be fun....hehehe....
Yes...people...i do know how to kick a ball...hahaha..and yes, i have been kicking balls lately...
And guess what? Vincy is in my team for that tourney too ;) haha..ain't that cool...able to kick some balls with the bf haha....
ladeedaaa~~~
till then....
Okla kupz and gurangak....demi kaurang sa tulis la something-something sini bolog sia haha...
Hrmmm...life nowadays not as happening as it was when i was still "available" haha...those were the crazy days.... *winks*
Am taking it slow nowadays....boring ol life..work work work...home home home...but not all that boring after all when i have something or someone i love to look forward to see every time i drive home from work...hihihi..paham-paham jak la...
Nothing is boring when being with him...ada saja mo di buat sama-sama..kalau langsung teda mo buat....apa lagi...argue la..cari pasal...wakkakaakakkaa....hanya untuk mengisi masa lapang...rushak rushak...
Anyways, there are certain times when i do miss hanging out with friends....but susah ba sini..ada kereta tapi ndak tau jalan-jalan area KL...plus that piece of junk is just so fucking frustarating to drive haha....and also...working life is really draining the energy out of me...tidur time pun skema gila ni....by 12am latest 1am misit mo tidur sudah..kalau ndak sengsara the next at work...aduinaaa....sia rindu time sikul ....hahaha..padahal dulu...ndak sabar-sabar mo abis sikul...ladeedaaa~~
Love life? hrmm..besalah..there are ups and downs and hiccups along the way...part and parcel of the learning and getting-to-know-each-other-better process....ada masa happy ada masa sedih...ada masa maradang...ada masa kin koinggorit...ala...paham-paham jak la....but i love him and i know he loves me the same....cuma kami dua ni dua-dua karas kapala sama ego hehehe...so instead of match made in heaven, both of us is on the contrary...match made in hell...haha....
Instead of the typical Romeo n Juliet or Adam n Eve...both of us is more like Kratos and Medusa wakakakakaka.........nah kaw...
Oh ya...sa makin gumuk kekekekeke....makin best mo di gapus oleh kamurang...tapi tu nenen masih maintain la...tu perut jak makin gontit..sama level sudah sama tu nenen wakakakaka...
One more thing...did i mention to u guys that sa balik KK ni ari 6 (19/5/07) tapi blk KL ari satu malam la...balik skejap untuk urusan seri paduka baginda saja ba hehehe....
Bah...paning sudah kapala sia menaip ni....nanti kalau sia kana suruh update lagi....baru sia update la ah...hahahahaa...
till then~~~
As much as i hate to take it but i just have to...else, it's too risky...
Price one has to pay for being ignorant of one's health...
ladeedaaa~~
"...once u take it....there's no looking back and it's a lifetime commitment..." --- by nurse kat counter clinic hihihi...
goodness..it has been ages since the last time i updated this blog....
Honestly speaking, not really in the mood to blog nowadays....
I can give u guys a million excuses but heck...i don't need to right?
Anyways, to everyone who's wondering how have i been doing lately? Well, just so u guys know..im doing fine...
Will i stop blogging? Hrmmm....dun think so, probably wont be as often as before....
Ive never stopped pouring my guts out into words...just not publicly anymore...i have found my own private space now to do that....ladeedaaa~~~
Last sunday...vincy, my cousin --Abet, her friend -- Gale and I went to Kuala Kubu Baru punya waterfall. The place was kinda ulu la....we had to walk or sorta like jungle trekking for about 45minutes - 1hr to reach our destination --- the beautiful waterfall of Sg.Chilling....
The journey wasn't tiring at all....it was indeed an interesting and fun experience for me....We had to cross over rivers for about 3-4times....and times the depth of the water was up to our waist....bestttt!!! Very the adventure....haha...
Sia siap kana gigit lintah lagi...my first experience ever hahaha...all this while sa takut butul lintah..abis selalu dengar cerita urg...bila sa kana...rilek jak sa..tidak pun sakit hihihi..buli-buli lagi sa buka trus mo kira ampai balik di kaki sia..tapi kana marah oleh mereka-mereka sekalian hihihihi...budutss kan...
It was really breathtaking la....muddy and wet....and minor scratches here and there sebab masuk hutan bah...but it was all worthwhile......and i'm sure going to go back there in future...to me, based on my limited nature adventure experience.....Sg.Chiling waterfall is the best! cantik ba....water is really refreshing...the place is huge.....puas mo berenang ke hulu ke hilir...and air pun memang dalam..lebih 7 kaki dalam pun ada o.....memang best! hihi..plus, ndak ramai orang pi tu tempat cos not fully commercialised lagi hihihi.....
Selain tuh....ada lagi aksi sa terjun dalam air kana caught in camera hahaha..men bida tahap gaban but it was cool...
On the way home pula, kami berhenti sekejap di siring jalan pi tadah air bukit.....rasa dia sebiji macam mineral water hihihihi..nyaman bah liao hihihi...
Basically, the trip was fun...we all had fun....was quite an experience for me especially sebab not really an adventurous gal ma...having said that, i think i'm gonna love doing stuff like these....hihihii
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Ok la...since i kana tag oleh si chenta-pootz...so here goes....hehehe...
(Imagine yourself in a forest or a jungle now…..)
1 ) What is the first animal you see? - elephant
2 ) What is the second animal you see? - tiger
(Imagine now there is a hut in front of you.…)
3 ) Do you :
a) Bypass itb) Knock before going in
c) Rush in.
(Now imagine yourself in the hut….)
4 ) There are 20 candles in it, how many will you light up? 12
5 ) What is the shape of the table that you think is in the hut?Is it square or round? - square
6 ) How many chairs do you see around the table? - 4
7 ) There is also a jug in this hut. What do you think the material of this jug is? - glass
8 ) State the amount of water in it?
a) no waterb) 1/2 full
c) 3/4 full
d) totally full.
(Now imagine that you are out of the hut…)
9 ) You have reach a beautiful waterfall. How fast do you think is the speed of the waterfall?
(1-9) (1 is the slowest and 9 is the fastest) - 5
10 ) How many swans are there that you see near the waterfall? - 2
11 ) Now you have reach the river bank and your destination is just opposite. How do you go over?
a) jump into the river and swim across.b) find another way to cross it.
12 ) What are the first words that you will say when you get over? - yay....sib baik..
(Finally….)
13 ) Give 3 words to describe the sky. - blue, white and endless...
14 ) And give 3 words to describe the sea. - deep, huge, scary
//——>
Ok..here goes to the meaning of my answers....
tadaa...
1 ) This question symbolizes the “reflection of your life“.
2 ) This question symbolizes the “character of your life partner”.
3 )
a) bypass means “not ready for relationships”
b) knock before going in means “ready for relationships”
c) Rush in means “you are desperate“
4 ) This question means “your generosity….the more you light up, the more generous you are”
5 ) If you have a square table this means that you are “stubborn”, if you have a round table this means that you are “flexible”
6 ) This actually shows your “hospitality”. The more the better!
7 ) Depends on what you say, this refers to the “material of your heart”
8 ) This refers to the “amount of love that you will give to your partner”
9 ) Speed actually refers to your “sex drive”
10 ) The number of swans, refer to the “number of best friends you have”
11 )
a) This means “that you act without thinking”
b) This means “that you think before you act”
12 ) This refers to the “first words you will say on your wedding night”
13 ) This 3 words describe “your point of view to love”
14 ) This 3 words describe “the sounds or kind of love-making you will have”
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Bagi sia mmg siok la...tetau kamurang...ladeedaaa~~
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE...muaxxx....
ok...this year is our first valentine's day celebrating together....and fyi, this is the best valentine's day celebration i've ever had....
What he did was really unexpected, considering him being the unromantic kinda guy hihi (love u baby...)
I was surprised...shocked to be exact to describe how i felt the moment i entered the house...
Just arrived from a game of badminton with colleagues right after work...still sweating like a hog and phew...paham-paham jak la bau nya kekekeke....saw the settings...and immediately headed straight to the room...and voila...there he was standing at the corner of the room...holding the beautiful bouquet of flowers waiting for me.....
Hugged him tight...and tears started to roll down my cheeks..tears of joy of course...
I feel so blessed to have found him...although we have been through rough and difficult times recently..but that just made our love stronger.....i love u vincy baby....and i know u do too....
k lah...let me bore u guys with pictures hehehe..
p/s: minta maap atas sekian lama nda update blog.....hiiihihihi...labiu all...
Tanggal 1/2/2007 adalah hari keramat di mana handphone saya yang buruk hilang! How? i also don't remember haha.......
Time tu sa sama kajen sa and her friends pi clubbing di sono POPPI PUB di KL....kami moginums lapan urang...open bottle 2 chivas....and sa sija pun mo stangah butul ba sturang minum....mimang navuk la urang bilang...nasib sija dapat jalan balik pi kereta tp tulah....gara-gara tu trus handphone ilang nda ingat apa-apa aduiiinaa....tapi tekpa...next day trus bili baru...number masih sama la....tapi phonebook suma abis lor....
so sepa-sepa yang kanal sa tuh...kamurang sms la sa numbur kamurang balik kio......
til then~~~
20/1/2007 - Vodka stangah butul...on the rocks.....sturang minum.. = navuk + au miho + novuzas hihihii....
Ni laini kalau kaki butul..inda pandai insaf....
ladeedaaa~~
I was browsing through the net awhile ago.....was trying to find information on what had happened to www.sixthseal.com....ok before i gget to my big news...Sixthseal.com has been banned/shutdown due to the author of the site, Huai Bin got himself in deep shit with the authorities in Singapore because of the explicit contents about abuses of illegal drugs featured in his blog...other than that, he still alive and kicking and currently staying with his family in Sibu. Also just started his new job with a timber company ( got this info from the few sites...so, i cannot guarantee the authenticity of this information...hihi)
Anyways, back to my BIG story haha.....first off....i didn't know and never expected that my friendster blog is worth to be archived in the cyberspace.
The entries that i have deleted are stored here but not all unfortunately though....only from Nov 2005 to February 2006. I was shocked but it did feel kinda good though....budutssss....
I was smiling reading through those entries...stuffs i wrote clearly show how self-destructive i was.....it was like reading someone else's life haha.....weird but was nice to be able to read all those deleted entries and memories....some were good memories some were bad....but hey that's life.....
When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind.
When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply.
When a GIRL looks at u with eyesful of question,
She is wondering how long will you be around.
When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,
She is not at all fine.
When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying.
When a GIRL says I love you, She means it.
When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more than her.
SO GIRLS, TELL ME...ARE THESE TRUE OR WHAT? *winks*
Got this form Alzanah.
This year is gonna be a cuti-cuti year for vincy and i. Currently, so far, we have 3 upcoming trips to a couple of states in Malaysia and one in Bali.....thanks to the FREE SEATS being offered by Airasia ahakss....capat trus bah pi bili online hahaha....it will be a 3month gap for each trip -- march, july, october...and probably december....tengah mau cari way lagi la ni....hihihi..
I can't wait hehehehehe.....especially Bali woohoooo...
*cross finger* Pls Pls...don't let anything screw our plans...
till then....ladeedaaa~~~
Hrmm....am all alone now at home..my Vincy has gone out with his toy collector friends lepak kat Amcorp Mall. Cian juga dia..since i move in with him...he seldom spend time and lepak with his friends ody.....makes him feel bad leaving me at home....well, i guess i understand how he feels..cos i feel the same too.....He just sms'd me, saying he'll be home quite late...must be alot of catching up to do with them...cerita-cerita toy-toy baru yang akan keluar or yang tengah hot di pasaran,etc....god knows la cerita-cerita lelaki ni ahahaha...
Anyways, just so you guys know....my life now has been quite a routine. Wake up at 6:30am, go to work, come back from work around 5:50pm, cook, eat, bathe, laze around or maybe fool around *devilish grin* haahaha for a while, sleep and the same cycle repeats every next day haha....
And the only ONE thing that i really look forward to do every day is to have him greet me with his big warm hug every time i reach home from work. Feels so nice to hear him say: "gracy babyy" then followed with a huggie...ahh...besstt...hihihi...
Owh and weekends too...ahahaha...cos can go jalan-jalan with Vincy...and do stuffs together....
Hrmm....bah tu jak la buat masa ni...hihihi...
Wanna watch tv first....
till then~~
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... .. SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more
it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to
you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but
often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to
someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose
the best. Save the best for the last!
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person".
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best
person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... DEEPLY IN LOVE
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent
together but how good you are for each other... and how
good you can understand and comfortable to each other...
To My Friends Who Are... ... ...... PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about
feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean
to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in
love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both
ways...
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault" but "I'm sorry",
not "where are you" but "I'm right here", not "how could you"
but "I understand", not "I wish you were" but "I'm thankful
you are"...
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks will last as you want and cut as deep as
you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive
heartbreaks but to learn from them... don't say something
bad but just think how's it happened and try to be a better
person in future.
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be
consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep
the pain.
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with
someone else but it's more painful to know that the one
you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more
when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when
the person you love has no idea how you feel. When the person
lives with someone else in future, you are a sure dead person.
To My Friends Who Are... ... ... ... STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall
in love only to find out in the end that it was never meant
to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't
worth it. If he isn't worth it now not going to be worth it a
year or 10 years from now. So, just let go... ..
TO ALL MY FRIENDS... ... .
My wish for you is a man/women who's love is honest, strong,
mature, never-changing, uplifting, sincere, protective,
encouraging, rewarding and unselfish, understanding and know
how to take care of our when we need someone the most! Even better
if she/he can make us smile when we feel bad... just grab that person...
don't let them past by or otherwise we'll regret for the rest of
our life!
Got this frm Nonong and because some phrases sorta hit home
run to me...i decided to post this up...ladeedaa~~